When is a birthday NOT a birthday?

So, i recently had a birthday, but it was more like a regular day. Just like any other day of the week.

I didn’t want it to be about me as i want to celebrate my Nan’s life for as long as she is alive, i don’t know how much longer she has left, but i want every day to be special for her.

Any other birthday i probably would have asked to go away for the weekend or have a day trip somewhere with the family but not this year.
This year i was happy to stay with my Nan and have my family come to me (which they did) as well as see the people who came to visit my Nan.
It was so lovely to see extended family members who i haven’t seen for a while.

I had friends, family & acquaintances wish me a Happy Birthday on Social Media which was lovely.

But at the end of it… it’s just another day.
I am happy that my Nan ate better that day. She ate more that day than she had for a while beforehand. That is what made me happiest.

That is what life is about.

Love. Family. Friends.